The Need for a Cultural Shift on Gender-based Violence
Posted Dec. 6, 2017 05:25 am | Op-Ed
By
Laura Finley
November 25th kicked off the annual 16 Days of Activism against Gender-based Violence. At no time has this work been more necessary than now. From rampant sexual harassment to sexual assault, domestic violence and sexual trafficking, women across the globe and in the U.S face gender-based violence at horrifying rates.
My recent personal experience was not the first in my 45 years. While there has been important attention paid lately to men in power abusing women, who are their subordinates in the workplace or other places, it is essential to remember that “everyday” men also commit these same acts of sexual harassment, abuse, and assault. Not because their work position affords them any particular power over a woman, but because the general sense that they are entitled to do and act as they please is prevalent in how many boys and men are socialized.
Not long ago, I experienced unwanted sexual conduct from someone half my age. He had no social power over me. He is a male in a culture in which some males are taught that things are theirs for the taking.
On my campus, I have been catcalled by boys recently out of high school. A 15-year-old girl I know was harassed by much older men while wearing a caroling costume for a holiday event. We should not be surprised. Horrified – yes. Outraged – yes. But not surprised.
Statistics have long shown the scope of these problems.
Studies have found that one-third of American women experience sexual harassment in the workplace. According to the World Health Organization nearly one-third of the world’s women have endured physical or sexual intimate partner violence. Worldwide, domestic violence kills more women than civil wars. Far more people in America, mostly women, have been killed by their partners than were U.S forces in the wars in Iraq and Afghanistan combined.
American women are twice as likely to suffer domestic violence as breast cancer. In the U.S., more women are injured from domestic violence than from car accidents, rapes, and muggings combined. According to the Rape, Abuse, and Incest National Network, a woman in the U.S. is sexually assaulted every 98 seconds. Women and young girls are sold into sexual slavery, not just overseas but on American soil. They are often recruited from websites like Backpage and Craigslist with promises of lucrative modeling or acting jobs. More than 3,500 sex trafficking cases were reported to the National Human Trafficking Resource Center in 2016, a figure that far underestimates the scope of the problem given that most instances are not reported and a girl can be trafficking multiple times per day.
Males in powerful positions are even more able to exploit and demean women and those they see as powerless, as these people fear they will lose their jobs, their reputation, and even their lives if they resist or if they tell anyone. This is tremendously clear with the spate of sexual harassment, misconduct and assault allegations being levied against politicians, media moguls, and celebrities, including but sadly not limited to Bill Cosby, Bill O’Reilly, Harvey Weinstein, Kevin Spacey, Matt Lauer, Garrison Keillor, Roy Moore, Al Franken and of course, Donald Trump.
What are we to do?
The good news is there is a lot that is already happening.
New laws are criminalizing revenge pornography, helping to stop males from sharing provocative photos and imagery as a means of controlling women.
Women are speaking out about the harassment, abuse and assault and refusing to be silenced.
Legal settlements are being publicized. Activists are continuing to strategize and build on the energy and momentum from last years’ Women’s marches.
In South Florida, I am fortunate to be able to work with a non-profit organization, No More Tears, which helps victims of many of these forms of gender-based violence. This unique organization is entirely volunteer-run and provides comprehensive services that allow victims to heal and to build happy and healthy lives.
I am also co-organizer of the College Brides Walk, a dating and domestic violence awareness campaign that reaches several thousand high school and college youth. More such organizations are needed nationwide.
The increased conversation about these issues is indeed a cultural tipping point.
Enough is enough.
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Laura Finley, Ph.D., teaches in the Barry University Department of Sociology & Criminology and is syndicated by PeaceVoice.
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